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Trying isn’t doing. As Yoda said, “No! Try not. Do, or do not. There is no try.” Saying “I’ll try” is a
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Leadership is NOT a position; rather leadership is a frame of mind, an attitude. Most think that leadership flows from positional power
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Role suction refers to the tendency to drop back into familiar roles either from childhood, or previous relationships or jobs. Common roles
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F.P.F.P. stands for “Fully Prepared for the Past”. There is a saying that “Armies are always ready to fight the last war”
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Feelings are more transitory than we sometimes realize. Emotions are frequently like the rain and the sun; they come and they go.
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As in puppet strings; as in who is in control? The only good answer is “I do!” Yet even in the 7th
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The impact of stress tends to follow an “Inverted U”: Some level is motivational and helpful however past a certain point, some
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Objectivius Shinium Syndromus or “Shiny Object Syndrome” (SOS) is the tendency to let a new idea or concept or venture capture your
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“A good relationship should not have problems.” “Couples who are in love, who have a good relationship, do not fight.” “If my
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When I was younger, I used to wonder when I’d finally make it to the “Other Side”, that land of milk and
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“Self-distancing” is the ability to stand outside one’s self and gain perspective, to in essence take a psychological “time-out”. It’s your mother’s
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I will leave each reader to define for themselves what constitutes “inferior pleasures” for them; principles are simple, application can be complex.