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Rude remarks, such as “idiot” and “stupid,” in the readers’ comments sections of online media stories significantly impacted readers perceptions and polarized

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When you squeeze an orange you don’t get lemon juice. Even under stress, the orange stays true to its essential self. It

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What is your social competence score? Your social competence is closely related to your EQ, or your emotional quotient. EQ is your

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“How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character,” by Paul Tough, a former editor at New York Times Magazine,

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Self Awareness: Super Achiever’s Secret

How do you react when you find an obstacle in your path? Do you focus on external reasons for failure? See outcomes

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Left to themselves, infatuation and passion have short lives. Face it, the new car smell fades over time and reality sets in:

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One Hundred Days of Rejection

Jia Jiang is putting himself out there big time. He is making at least one “crazy request” each day for 100 days

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Most people have more time than they realize; the true constraint is energy. Think of all the things you have to do,

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Six Universal Principles of Influence and Persuasion

1. Reciprocation: People like (even feel obligated) to return favors 2. Authority: People tend to look to experts for guidance. This can

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Savoring Ability: How Good Are You? Four Proven Ways to Get Even Better

Savoring is the ability to “make the moment last,” to stretch the satisfaction from some experience, event, or feeling. In scientific speak,

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Broken Windows: Why the Little Things Can Be Big Things

Some things set the tone for other things. Norms are established, announcing what is accepted or permitted and what is not. Some